An old
friend
Yesterday
I met my old colleague, she was really helpful and give a piece of advice about
my apperance and how I should change it in order to be more attractive to
girls. I really appreciate such friends who always have some time for me.
That's nice.
So the
question was about my jacket, trousers and the shirt I was wearing. So the key
points were - get a better jacket which can maintain a good form - I think it
should be made of some dense texture not like the one that I'm wearing at the
moment; the second item was my jeans - she said that I should try wearing a
pair of good trousers made of a dense texture, again they should maintain the
form and look new and costy; the last remark I got was about my shirt - the
problem was in the appearance that I had, she also said that I should buy a new
shirt and again it must look new and expensive and the collar should be hard
and dense and keep the form after a washing machine.
А
random meeting
Later that day on
my way back home I decided to visit that cafe "Open world" where I
usually drop by in summer and to my surprise I so the a girl who I had a talk
to a week or two ago just before my business trip to Dublin, Ireland.
She is a designer
of interiors. She works a lot and she doesn't have any time to meet me, she
even refused my invitation to a cinema because she has a big queue of clients
who want her to design their flats, houses and even whole buildings.
Her name is
Nastiya, she told me many interesting things about the view of girls and women
on relationships and why they ever start them. The main her idea was that any
girl and woman above 20 or so will perceive any man as a prospective husband if
she is going to see him. And as she told that – it is the only way any woman
think about relationships in any environment.
So she gave advice
that I should accept that viewpoint and never try to persuade anyone that she
should think any other direction. And the advice was – keep yourself
well-groomed, neat, always wear new, good-looking, clean clothes because it is
important to show to the girl that you have enough money to develop
relationships, support her in terms of money and later be a main supplier of
material goods and finance to your mutual family. That's it.